Shifting Standards

People are always saying how standards have changed. And when you hear this, you nod your head in agreement, but don't really add anything.  But, bloggers, now take time to think about these standards.  Think about a girlfriend.  What was she expected to do back fifty years ago?  Women had that Donna Reed role in the relationship.  Now, what are girls expected to do? In attempt to keep this a G- rating, I'll refrain from specifics.  But it's crazy, actually.  I don't understand why.  Was this shift spiked by the demands of males, or was it the desperate actions of women as they search for some guy that will seem to NEED them?  Either one of those makes our society seem icky.  If men have managed to objectify women to the point where they have no choice in what they do, because if they don't agree upon these things, no boy will want them, that is honestly pathetic.  But if girls are sooo desperate to be willing to do these things to find a boy, it is just as much their fault as the males.  As long as women agree to conform to these standards, nothing will change.  Nothing at all.  It will just get worse, and more demanding. I'm pretty sure no female out there wants that.  We just want a loving relationship, for the most part.  But if to get that, we think giving hand jobs, and more to the guy will make him become that loving partner, we're crazy.  Obviously something has to change.  Fast.